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The gift of not belonging : how outsiders thrive in a world of joiners / Dr. Rami Kaminski.

Van Pelt Library BF697.5.S65 K355 2025
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Format:
Book
Author/Creator:
Kaminski, Rami, author.
Language:
English
Subjects (All):
Interpersonal relations.
Adaptability (Psychology).
Personality.
Physical Description:
viii, 223 pages : illustrations ; 22 cm
Edition:
First edition.
Other Title:
How outsiders thrive in a world of joiners
Place of Publication:
New York : Little, Brown Spark, 2025.
Summary:
From a renowned psychiatrist comes the first book to explore the otrovert personality--someone who feels like an outsider in any group--revealing all the advantages of being an otrovert. Were you the kid who never wanted to join after school clubs or go to sleepaway camp? Do you loathe parties but love spending time with close friends one-on-one? Are you allergic to teamwork but thrive creatively and professionally when working alone? Do you struggle to fit in? If so, you are likely an otrovert. Otroverts are not natural born joiners. Unlike introverts, they are not shy or quiet, and do not quickly tire from one-on-one socializing. Yet in large groups they feel uncomfortable, alienated, and alone. The Gift of Not Belonging urges otroverts to embrace their unique gifts, and equips them with the knowledge and tools to thrive in a communal world. -- adapted from jacket
Contents:
Introduction
Part I: The foundations of non-belonging. What is an otrovert?
How the world misunderstands otroverts
The meek rebel
The pseudo extrovert
The creative
The empath
Part II: A world made for joiners. We are all born otroverts
A culture that rewards joining
The fallacy of fitting in
Part III: The virtues of being and otrovert. Emotional self-sufficiency
Empathy and connection
Confidence and contentment
Thinking outside the hive
The richness of inner life
Part IV: The otrovert life. The otrovert child
Running the gauntlet of adolescence
Romantic relationships
Otroverts at work
Old age and death
Conclusion
Appendix: Are you an otrovert?
Notes:
Includes index.
ISBN:
9780316576086
0316576085
OCLC:
1504737971
Publisher Number:
90102150367

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