Sacred Divorce : Religion, Therapeutic Culture, and Ending Life Partnerships / Kathleen E. Jenkins.

Format:

Book

Author/Creator:

Jenkins, Kathleen E., Author.

Language:

English

Subjects (All):

Divorce--Religious aspects--Christianity.

Divorce.

Divorce--Religious aspects--Catholic Church.

Divorce--Religious aspects--Judaism.

Divorce--United States.

Physical Description:

1 online resource (250 p.)

Edition:

1st ed.

Place of Publication:

New Brunswick, NJ : Rutgers University Press, [2014]

Language Note:

English

Summary:

Even in our world of redefined life partnerships and living arrangements, most marriages begin through sacred ritual connected to a religious tradition. But if marriage rituals affirm deeply held religious and secular values in the presence of clergy, family, and community, where does divorce, which severs so many of these sacred bonds, fit in? Sociologist Kathleen Jenkins takes up this question in a work that offers both a broad, analytical perspective and a uniquely intimate view of the role of religion in ending marriages. For more than five years, Jenkins observed religious support groups and workshops for the divorced and interviewed religious practitioners in the midst of divorces, along with clergy members who advised them. Her findings appear here in the form of eloquent and revealing stories about individuals managing emotions in ways that make divorce a meaningful, even sacred process. Clergy from mainline Protestant denominations to Baptist churches, Jewish congregations, Unitarian fellowships, and Catholic parishes talk about the concealed nature of divorce in their congregations. Sacred Divorce describes their cautious attempts to overcome such barriers, and to assemble meaningful symbols and practices for members by becoming compassionate listeners, delivering careful sermons, refitting existing practices like Catholic annulments and Jewish divorce documents (gets), and constructing new rituals. With attention to religious, ethnic, and class variations, covering age groups from early thirties to mid-sixties and separations of only a few months to up to twenty years, Sacred Divorce offers remarkable insight into individual and cultural responses to divorce and the social emotions and spiritual strategies that the clergy and the faithful employ to find meaning in the breach. At once a sociological document, an ethnographic analysis, and testament of personal experience, Sacred Divorce provides guidance, strategies and answers to readers looking for answers and those looking to heal.

Contents:

Frontmatter

CONTENTS

Acknowledgments

Introduction

1. Social Shame and Religious Tools

2. Divorce Work as Cultural Strategy

3. Solitary Work through Community

4. Cautious Clergy

5. Rich Lived Practice

6. Religious Emotion and Multiple Family Forms

Appendix on Methods

Notes

References

Index

ABOUT THE AUTHOR

Notes:

Description based upon print version of record.

Includes bibliographical references and index.

Description based on online resource; title from PDF title page (publisher's Web site, viewed 29. Feb 2020)

ISBN:

0-8135-6348-8

OCLC:

889814072