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Healing sex : a mind-body approach to healing sexual trauma / Staci Haines ; Felice Newman, editor.
- Format:
- Book
- Author/Creator:
- Haines, Staci.
- Language:
- English
- Subjects (All):
- Adult child sexual abuse victims--United States--Psychology.
- Adult child sexual abuse victims.
- Adult child sexual abuse victims--Sexual behavior--United States.
- Sex counseling--United States.
- Sex counseling.
- Sex instruction--United States.
- Sex instruction.
- Psychology.
- United States.
- Physical Description:
- 1 online resource (xxxiv, 267 pages) : illustrations
- polychrome
- Edition:
- Updated second edition.
- Place of Publication:
- San Francisco, California : Cleis Press, [2007]
- System Details:
- text file
- Contents:
- Intro
- Healing Sex: A Mind-Body Approach to Healing Sexual Trauma
- Publishing Details
- Acknowledgments
- Dedication
- Illustrations
- Table of Contents
- Introduction to the Second Edition
- Introduction
- Chapter 1: Safety, Somatics, and Sexual Healing
- The Choice to Heal
- Safety and Sexual Healing
- What's Down This Road, Anyway?
- Somebody to Lean On: Self-Care and Support
- Somatics: Including Your Body in Healing
- Safer Sex Getting
- Started Sex
- Guide Exercises
- Chapter 2: Desire and Pleasure
- Discovering Your Pleasure and Desire
- Desire Is in Your Body
- Your Sexual Self-Education
- The Complexity of Desire
- Sex Guide Exercises
- Chapter 3: Dissociation
- Checking Out
- Dissociation and You
- The Road Back: Healing Dissociation
- Chapter 4: Self-Denial
- Survival Is a Powerful Act
- Sexual Aversion: Who Needs Sex, Anyway?
- Sexual Compulsion: Sex as the Only Way
- Healing Self-Denial
- The End of Self-Denial
- Chapter 5: Sexual Response and Anatomy: Information Is Power
- Where Did You Learn That?
- Sex Information and Sexual Abuse
- So What Is That Thing? A Lesson in Sexual Anatomy
- Sexual Response Cycle
- Gynecological Issues
- Your Body
- Chapter 6: Masturbation and Self-Healing
- Self-Loving
- A Bad Rap
- Your Keystone to Healing
- But I Don't Want to Masturbate
- Five Steps to Great Masturbation
- How to Touch Yourself
- A Masturbation Date
- Sex Toys, Fantasies, and Porn
- Compulsive Masturbation
- Mutual Masturbation
- Chapter 7: Consent and Boundaries:
- The "Yes," "No," and "Maybe" of Sex
- What Is Consent?
- Sexual Abuse and Unwanted Sex
- Embodied Consent
- Informed Consent
- Knowing What You Want
- Communicating Consent
- "Yes," "No," and "Maybe" Vignettes
- Negotiate Before You Play
- Response from Others
- Healthy Risks
- Chapter 8: Partner Sex
- The Good, the Bad, and...the Pleasurable?
- Choosing Sexual Partners
- Let's Talk About Sex
- How to Meet Sexual Partners
- Flirting and Kissing
- Go Out There and Have Fun!
- Chapter 9: Oral Sex
- Cunnilingus
- The How-to's of Cunnilingus Cunnilingus and Triggers Fellatio
- The How-to's of Fellatio Fellatio and Triggers Rimming
- The How-to's of Rimming Safer Oral Sex
- Sex Guide Exercises
- Chapter 10: Penetration
- Vaginal Penetration
- The How-to's of Vaginal Penetration
- Anal Penetration
- The How-to's of Anal Penetration
- Safer Penetration
- Penetration and Triggers
- Chapter 11: Embracing Triggers
- What Is a Trigger?
- Map to Recovery
- Embracing Triggers: This Way Out
- Trigger Plan and Tools
- Tell It Like It Is: Communication and Triggers
- Safewords
- Troubling Desire
- Healing Triggers Outside of Partner Sex
- Taking a Break from Sex
- Sex Guide Exercise
- Chapter 12: The Emotions of Healing:
- Notes:
- Includes bibliographical references (pages 244-265).
- Electronic reproduction. Ann Arbor, MI Available via World Wide Web.
- online resource; title from resource description page (Recorded Books, viewed April 18, 2016)
- Originally published as: The survivor's guide to sex : how to have an empowered sex life after child sexual abuse. ©1999.
- Other Format:
- Print version: Haines, Staci. Healing sex.
- ISBN:
- 9781573446099
- 1573446092
- Publisher Number:
- 99989336603
- EB00646779 Recorded Books
- Access Restriction:
- Restricted for use by site license.
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